{"id":21615,"date":"2014-10-05T14:10:19","date_gmt":"2014-10-05T14:10:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/km7.a6a.mytemp.website\/journal\/conversation-with-retired-brig-general-rebecca-halstead\/"},"modified":"2014-10-05T14:10:19","modified_gmt":"2014-10-05T14:10:19","slug":"conversation-with-retired-brig-general-rebecca-halstead","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/km7.a6a.mytemp.website\/journal\/conversation-with-retired-brig-general-rebecca-halstead\/","title":{"rendered":"Conversation with Retired Brig. General Rebecca Halstead"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>PneumaReview.com speaks with Becky Halstead\u2014the first woman general to lead in combat at the strategic level*\u2014about faith, leadership, and how churches can support the men and women who serve in the military.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>PneumaReview.com: Please tell us about where you come from and why you aspired to become an officer, and ultimately a Brigadier General, in the US Army.<\/strong><\/p>\n<figure style=\"width: 213px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/BeckyHalstead.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"213\" height=\"321\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.beckyhalstead.com\">Retired Brig. General Becky Halstead<\/a>, the first female commanding general in the U.S. Military history to lead at the strategic in combat operations.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>Retired Brig. General Rebecca Halstead: <\/strong>I was born and raised mostly in upstate New York. Our little town of Willseyville (where I lived) and Candor (where I went to school) had no traffic lights. We were considered mostly a dairy area, and the majority of our time was spent in school, church and community activities. My father worked for IBM, and my mother was a dental hygienist. I loved playing sports and wanted to be a physical education teacher. However, in 1976 my mother read in the newspaper about the military academies opening up to women. My mom thought I was the perfect fit for what they looking for and she encouraged me to apply. My mom and dad were loving, strong and disciplined Christian parents. I reluctantly agreed to put my nomination packet together. After visiting several of the Academies, I decided if I was going to attend, I wanted West Point for its rich history and discipline.<\/p>\n<p>In the late spring of my senior year of high school, 1977, I received my acceptance letter from West Point. I began my military journey just a few days after high school graduation in July 1977. Before leaving for West Point I had key people in my life sign my Bible: youth group leader, Sunday school teachers, Pastor and his wife, parents, and some best friends. During my four years at West Point I read their words of encouragement hundreds of times. My goals were simple: don\u2019t quit, don\u2019t let my family and friends down, and pray to graduate.<\/p>\n<p>Upon graduation in 1981, I was commissioned an officer in the United States Army. I was a Second Lieutenant. There was never any intent on my part to serve more than my mandatory five years after graduation. However, as the years unfolded, God blessed me with opportunities after opportunities, and numerous promotions. Again, I never aspired to become a General Officer, but after 16 different duty assignments and 23 years of serving and leading America\u2019s sons and daughters, I was promoted in 2004 to Brigadier General.<\/p>\n<p>With my promotion to Brigadier General came orders for combat. In 2005, my command in Germany was selected to deploy to Balad, Iraq for one year. In Iraq I had 20,000 soldiers in my command and we provided distribution of all the logistics for the 250,000 coalition men and women stationed there. It was the hardest, most challenging year of my life, but it was also the most rewarding. I grew as a leader, both personally and professionally. My faith walk was tested and strengthened as I dealt with tragedy and disappointments, complex missions, and the very worse, yet the very best at times, of mankind.<\/p>\n<figure style=\"width: 197px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/RHalstead-24-7-TheFirstPersonYouMustLead.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"197\" height=\"304\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">Becky Halstead&#8217;s first book, <em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/24-Person-Steadfast-Leadership-Series\/dp\/1451592876\">24\/7: The First Person You Must Lead Is YOU<\/a><\/em>.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>I returned to the United States in 2006 and took my last command in the army at Aberdeen Proving Ground, Maryland. I was responsible for all the military training associated with men and women in the Ordnance Corps\u2014the second largest branch in the Army. Unfortunately, I was dealing with a personal illness, chronic fibromyalgia, and after thoughtful prayer and consideration, submitted my retirement in 2008. I was only 49 years old, and I hated to leave the military that I come to love, especially because of the men and women I served with and led. I have always believed and practiced that God places nothing in front of us that He is not willing to help us through. So, I considered this a new mission and by retiring I could wrap my arms around the disease and figure out what was next.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><div class=\"pullquote\"><strong>STEADFAST<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Selfless Service<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Trust and Tenacity<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Encourage and Embrace<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Attitude and Approachability<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Discipline<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Family, Friends and Faith<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Accountability<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Standard Setter<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Teamwork<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><\/div>After a year of sustained chiropractic care and a complete reversal on my nutritional intake, my functionality was restored and my quality of life renewed. I felt strongly that God had blessed me with an incredible military journey, and I wanted to share what I had learned with others. So, in 2010 I started my own company, STEADFAST Leadership. The majority of my work has been as a keynote speaker on leadership in the corporate sector. Since 2010, I have served on numerous boards, worked with Harvard Business School on a leadership case study, was a Commissioner on the President\u2019s Military Leadership Diversity Commission, and authored my first book, <em>24\/7: The First Person You Must Lead Is You<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>PneumaReview.com: What were some of the special challenges you faced as the first woman to become a General Officer?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Halstead: <\/strong>Candidly, the challenges I faced as a female General were not unlike the challenges I faced my entire career as a female officer. Oftentimes, as the only woman in the room or the only woman commander in an organization, I had to work hard to earn the respect of the men on the team. No doubt, there were times I had to work harder at this than my male peers because of the stereotyping, but I believe each of us has a responsibility to earn the respect of others. So, I tried to look at it as my responsibility as a leader, not as a requirement because I was a woman. I never touted that my desire to serve my country was <em>greater<\/em> than a man\u2019s, but I did make it perfectly clear that my desire was not <em>less<\/em> than a man\u2019s!<\/p>\n<p>As a General and a senior leader for the army, I was reminded by senior Generals to not \u201crock the boat\u201d on issues like women in combat assignment policies or women not being allowed to serve in all branches, like infantry or armor. Although I complied while on active duty, I have taken a much stronger stance on these issues in retirement. For me, every American, male or female, ought to have the right and privilege to serve in any capacity for his or her country, as long as he or she meets the standards required. I don\u2019t agree with exclusion nor do I agree with inclusion without standards. I had no desire to serve in the infantry, but just because I personally had no desire does not mean women should not be allowed. If you meet the standard, you should be given the opportunity. I believe the same in the corporate sector. God created man and woman, equally. We honor Him when we use the talents He created uniquely in us.<\/p>\n<p>I exercised my faith in God all the time. On a daily basis I have always grounded myself with prayer and time for devotion. I believe actions speak louder than words, and I have simply wanted my life to reflect God\u2019s love in me and my love for God. I have tried to stay disciplined and live out my values for others to see. Where I have failed, I have asked forgiveness and tried to improve myself. My grandmother always taught us that we stand our tallest when we are on our knees (in prayer). Prayer has been the single most important practice in my life. For many years I have maintained a prayer warrior book, and others have reached out to me asking for me to pray for them and the challenges they faced. Prayer is what matures my relationship with God and with others.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>PneumaReview.com: What are some practical things churches can do to support the men and women who are currently serving in the armed forces?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Halstead: <\/strong>I believe our churches play a pivotal role in supporting our military men and women, past and present. We are to be encouragers and many need encouragement. Some of our men and women are broken\u2014emotionally, physically and spiritually. Each have different needs, but we can reach out to them to remind them their lives have purpose, that we are available to them, and that we are grateful for their service to our country.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>PneumaReview.com: What are some of the most meaningful ways civilians have expressed gratitude to you for your service?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Halstead: <\/strong>By simply saying thank you!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>PneumaReview.com: Many Christians around the world, and many of today\u2019s Pentecostals, believe that God has called them to pacifism. How can veterans build bridges with those who choose to avoid all kinds of violent resistance?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Halstead: <\/strong>Anyone who has ever served will be the first to tell you we want peace over violence more than anyone else. The cost of combat is so great. We recognize, however, that to preserve the peace we must sometimes wage combat. Doing so requires discipline, specific tasks and purpose, well-designed strategy and a desired endstate. I\u2019m not sure it is possible to avoid all violence resistance. Violence exists in so many places and ways. Lack of integrity in a home or business creates potential for violence. The bridge I would build would be constructed with pillars of values and have a disciplined path of respectful behaviors to minimize violence, and where there was violence I would be very measured in my response in order to not invoke more damage.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>PneumaReview.com: Why did you write <em>24:7: The First Person You Must Lead is You<\/em>?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Halstead: <\/strong>I wrote <em>24\/7<\/em> because I wanted to share some of the leadership lessons I learned throughout my 27-year military career. Consistently, after I delivered a keynote speech, people would come up to me and say, \u201cPlease tell me you have written a book!\u201d They wanted to learn more and by writing a book I could share more than just 60-90 minutes with them. So, the motivation came from my audience! I self-published so the book could reflect the same authenticity with which many have remarked upon after they hear me speak. Before each of my keynote speeches, I get down on my knees (usually in my hotel room) and ask the Lord to \u201cmanufacture my words and I will distribute them (like the parable of the loaves and fish where Jesus manufactured more and more, and the disciples kept distributing them to the people).\u201d In the same way, while I was creating <em>24\/7<\/em> over a two-year period, I asked the Lord to give me the right principles, stories and words so that the book would blessed God because it is a blessing to others.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Thank you for taking time to speak with PneumaReview.com about your story. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Be sure to visit Becky Halstead&#8217;s website: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.beckyhalstead.com\/\">www.beckyhalstead.com<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>* Correction: At the time of publication, it was inaccurately reported that Rebecca Halstead was the first woman general. She graciously sent the editor this note: &#8220;I don\u2019t know if you can make a correction or not, but I was the first woman general to lead in combat at the strategic level, not the first woman to be promoted to General.\u00a0 I don\u2019t want to take away from the accomplishments of other women who served and led before me.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; PneumaReview.com speaks with Becky Halstead\u2014the first woman general to lead in combat at the strategic level*\u2014about faith, leadership, and how churches can support the men and women who serve in the military. &nbsp; PneumaReview.com: Please tell us about where you come from and why you aspired to become an officer, and ultimately a Brigadier&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3009,"featured_media":21616,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"_kad_post_classname":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[11,3474],"tags":[3495,3316,3496,3497,3498,3499],"ppma_author":[4703],"class_list":["post-21615","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-living-the-faith","category-summer-2014","tag-brig","tag-conversation","tag-general","tag-halstead","tag-rebecca","tag-retired","author-rebeccahalstead"],"authors":[{"term_id":4703,"user_id":3009,"is_guest":0,"slug":"rebeccahalstead","display_name":"Rebecca Halstead","avatar_url":{"url":"https:\/\/km7.a6a.mytemp.website\/journal\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/BeckyHalstead_350x350-150x150.jpg","url2x":"https:\/\/km7.a6a.mytemp.website\/journal\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/BeckyHalstead_350x350-150x150.jpg"},"0":null,"1":"","2":"","3":"","4":"","5":"","6":"","7":"","8":""}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/km7.a6a.mytemp.website\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21615","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/km7.a6a.mytemp.website\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/km7.a6a.mytemp.website\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/km7.a6a.mytemp.website\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3009"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/km7.a6a.mytemp.website\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21615"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/km7.a6a.mytemp.website\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21615\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/km7.a6a.mytemp.website\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21616"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/km7.a6a.mytemp.website\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21615"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/km7.a6a.mytemp.website\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21615"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/km7.a6a.mytemp.website\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21615"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/km7.a6a.mytemp.website\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/ppma_author?post=21615"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}